Seriously both male and female really use social forms, (Facebook) as a dating site? I have used sites for selling or buying items for a couple of years now, however, never saw the list of men and women until now. I guess it never came to my mind. As I stumbled across the personals and cheaters list along with men and women looking for another partner while being married or involved with each other. If you must look for another partner while married, have a live in girlfriend or boyfriend and looking is not the key to any success in life. We married for better or worse and the grass is never greener on the other side, it may be for a short time, however, it doesn't last long and you have not only betrayed your spouse that spouse now will never trust you! Folks, you must have a foundation to build trust, honesty, communication then the word "Love". If you are that unhappy with your significant other maybe sit down and talk about each side of the problems and try working it out rather than jumping the gun looking elsewhere. If the two of you are unable to work things out again talk about it and have an understanding within you both the marriage or relationship isn't going to work. This nonscene looking for another partner on any dating site is totally ridiculous. You know nothing about the other person's background, life or who that person may really be. Am I starting to make any sense yet?
My life when younger involved women, and I mean all women no matter how cute or thin or fat and so on. I always said a glass of Rum always makes things look as I want them too. Married, divorced and even went different roads, but always crawled back onto the straight road compared to the strange sex roads. But, did learn a lot and read daily of couples in jail charging one another in order to pay the state, county, city extra money for some num-skull in a black road how your lives will continue. That type of settlement comes with a large price tag and even leads to jail or prison over time if don't keep those court, punishment payments, training groups payments up to date. Been to one of those myself and the person I paid, and seen was never married or knew what marriage was even, never lived it. To this day, I always wondered if she was gay or just too ugly or fat to seek out a partner. But, money was good.
Posting nude photos of yourself is going way beyond any respect rather it is you or the person that replies to one that has posted a nude photo. Think about it! The person in desperate need posting a nude photo has no self-respect, the person who replies to one has no self-respect of themselves or they'd never replied to such of an inappropriate photo, neither of either end has the respect of themselves little alone in their future. If you have small children that may be involved think about them too! Separation hurts the adults but it damages small children through their life. I am not stating stay with your spouse for the children, I am stating if your relationship can work out then try sitting down and talking about it.
This may not affect many of you out there, however, if you are one of those looking and posting for a hookup while in a relationship, married or too young to realize where you are headed then my old man's words won't be any help to you! If you are one that is reading this and have a post or nude photo posted or replying to a male of female that has posted one of either sex then you will understand my meaning of this post. those of you that have no future plans with a life in general, I promise to you all life only gets worse. Cherish the good in people, leave behind the cheaters as the old saying is cheating once, you'll cheat again this all being said, think about what I just wrote.
I am used to be a married person that is/ was married to my best friend. I am over the age of 55 and under the age of 71, I am my wife's best friend, she is my best friend. We do not live together as husband and wife because we sat down years ago and talked about who we are and decided to be best friends. Sure I am very small, not into the drama life, attractive, however, I would never ever think of looking for someone online. I much rather keep my self-extreme, looks and most of all my self-respect as well as my life! Words from a caring heart which hoping just one that may read this...just may step back and think twice. Have respect people! If you don't respect yourself as a human who else ever will? I am no longer interested in getting married even if my ex-wishes too. I am/was happy with best friends, but sometimes such things don't work out for the other half for one reason or another. She is still my best friend, and always will be. But, marriage is in her mind and not mine. So, she feels I deserted or played a game with her. Now, I just sit back and hope that one day she will understand me. But, at our ages I have doubts and as it is now we say small mee mee's or short one liner's to express likes and such. Her's always Never understanding why she was so taken in and I gave up wanting marriage after refusal so many times until now it is reversed. But, my thoughts of best friends are still there and will remain that no matter what. But, even old people have those same out life dealings. Not looking forward to seeing my son with his mother, my ex-wife on the 4th, but then I suppose I can last one day and hopefully the fireworks remain outside. After thirty years and the first time my son has seen his mother, and I as his dad and her my ex-wife is strange. I talk to my son and try to figure out how things are since her arrival on June the 27th. She is going to see her grandkids as well as great grandkids for the first time at a family reunion sort of held at my grandson's apartment, with his dad, my son. We have one of the biggest families that no one can believe, and even with one son never wanting to have anything to do with me because of his mother, but all the other six kids we get along. The one was told something that only DNA can prove, and even then he would believe his mom over any DNA even. The youngest of all kids are always that way, and I admit I was a tough father, but guess what we all know where each of us is. Life is for a living, so live it as it can end any time without you knowing it. Happy Fourth of July 2017
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